Thursday, April 28, 2011
IIAC Report
Coe 5-0 18-7
Luther 6-1 16-6
Cornell 4-2 11-10
Dubuque 4-2 9-14
Central 5-3 9-12
Wartburg 3-4 6-12
Buena Vista 2-6 3-9
Simpson 1-4 4-17
Loras 0-7 1-12
This weekend's play will conclude the regular season IIAC round robin play. Monday pairings for the May 6-7th Team Championships will be released. Play will occur at the Hawkeye Tennis Complex in Iowa City, Iowa.
Your Kohawks play their final three regular season matches tomorrow against Simpson, Dubuque and Loras. Other matches include:
4/28
Cornell at Simpson
4/29
Luther at Wartburg
4/30
Dubuque at Cornell
IIAC Womens AQ Event
Also scheduled for this Saturday is the IIAC Women's AQ Event hosted by Luther College.
10am Luther vs Cornell
Coe vs Wartburg
2pm Winning Teams meet for the right to represent the Iowa Conference in the NCAA Tournament.
The weather forecast for Saturday in Decorah is not positive. Play may be bumped to Sunday.
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
d3 Women's National rankings 4/26
2 Emory
3 Williams
4 Chicago
5 Tufts
6 Denison
7 W & L
8 Middlebury
9 JHU
10 Bowdoin
11 PP
12 WashU
13 Claremont
14 Carnegie
15 Gustavus
16 Chapman
17 MIT
18 Carleton
19 Depauw
20 South
21 TCNJ
22 UCSC
23 Vassar
24 Mary Wash
25 Wellesley
26 Brandeis
27 Skidmore
28 Trinity(TX)
29 Trinity(C)
30 UT Tyler
31 Rochester
32 Wheaton(IL)
33 Redlands
34 Whitewater
35 Luther
36 Wheaton(MA)
37 Whitworth
38 LaCrosse
39 Wash College
40 St Olaf
41 Swarthmore
42 Linfield
43 Coe
44 Centre
45 Whitman
46 Rhodes
47 Kenyon
48 Methodist
49 Albion
50 Will Smith
51 Hope
52 Willamette
53 Salisbury
54 Calvin
55 Muhlenburg
56 St Lawrence
57 Wartburg
58 Haverford
59 Ithaca
60 Augustana(IL)
61 Cal Lu
62 St Benedicts
63 Hollins
64 Grinnell
65 SUNY Geneseo
66 Mary Hardin-Baylor
67 Kalamazoo
68 St Mary's(IN)
69 Hardin Simmons
70 St Thomas(MN)
Monday, April 25, 2011
Knox College Boxscore
Coe College 6 Knox College 3
Stokstad/Janssen 1d Hane/Mulani K 98
Klaas/Land 2d Ham/Tilford C 82
Haralalka/Leovic 3d Gatyas/Thompson C 82
Alex Klaas 1s Eric Hane K 60 60
Sean Stokstad 2s Shaun Mulani C 60 62
Mike Janssen 3s David Ham K 26 76 default
Doug Land 4s Kenton Tilford C 75 63
Prateek Haralalka 5s Max Gatyas C 64 67 63
Tyler Wilson 6s Andrei Papancea C 46 64 63
d3 Men's National Rankings 4/25
2 Claremont
3 Santa Cruz
4 Amherst
5 Middlebury
6 WashU
7 Pomona
8 Kenyon
9 Williams
10 NC Wesleyan
11 JHU
12 UChicago
13 Trinity(TX)
14 Bowdoin
15 Redlands
16 Depauw
17 Trinity(CT)
18 Cal Lu
19 Carnegie
20 Skidmore
21 Whitman
22 Rhodes
23 MIT
24 Bates
25 Case
26 Denison
27 Mary Wash
28 Kalamazoo
29 Gustavus
30 Whitewater
31 UT Tyler
32 Swarthmore
33 Vassar
34 Brandeis
35 Tufts
36 Haverford
37 Stevens Tech
38 TCNJ
39 Christopher Newport
40 Whittier
41 Luther
42 Grinnell
43 Carleton
44 McMurry
45 W & L
46 Coe
47 Franklin & Marshall
48 Salisbury
49 Eau Claire
50 Wash College
51 Oglethorpe
52 Colby
53 St Thomas(MN)
54 Hampden Sydney
55 OH Northern
56 Willamette
57 Chapman
58 Occidental
59 NYU
60 St Olaf
61 Ithaca
62 Mississippi College
63 LaCrosse
64 Wheaton(MA)
65 Hardin Simmons
66 UT Dallas
67 South
68 Whitworth
69 Carthage
70 North Central
71 Augustana(IL)
72 Wheaton(IL)
73 Monmouth(IL)
74 IL Wesleyan
75 Birmingham Southern
Sunday, April 24, 2011
Kalamazoo College Boxscores WT/MT
Date: | 4/23/2011 |
Location: | Kalamazoo College |
Winner: | Coe College |
Score: | 6-3 |
Position | Kalamazoo College | Coe College | Winner | Score |
#1 Singles | Kelsey Hassevoort | Hannah Jensen | Coe College | 6-2, 6-2 |
#2 Singles | Kari Larson | Michelle Schupbach | Coe College | 6-2, 7-6 |
#3 Singles | Kelsey Moran | Tai Lucero | Coe College | 6-0, 6-0 |
#4 Singles | Kate Farwell | Sara Ohlman | Kalamazoo College | 6-3. 6-0 |
#5 Singles | Jenna Riehl | Natalie Bordignon | Kalamazoo College | 2-6, 6-2, (10-7) |
#6 Singles | Paula Silverman | Elizabeth Hoffmann | Kalamazoo College | 6-4, 6-2 |
#1 Doubles | Kari Larson Kelsey Moran | Michelle Schupbach Tai Lucero | Coe College | 8-2 |
#2 Doubles | Kate Farwell Kelsey Hassevoort | Hannah Jensen Sara Ohlman | Coe College | 8-5 |
#3 Doubles | Paula Silverman Jenna Riehl | Elizabeth Hoffmann Natalie Bordignon | Coe College | 8-6 |
Kalamazoo College vs Coe College
Date: | 4/23/2011 |
Location: | Kalamazoo College |
Winner: | Kalamazoo College |
Score: | 9-0 |
Position | Kalamazoo College | Coe College | Winner | Score |
#1 Singles | Nate Eddy | Victor Khristenko | Kalamazoo College | 6-4, 6-2 |
#2 Singles | Mark Denenfeld | Elliot Rausa | Kalamazoo College | 6-3, 6-0 |
#3 Singles | Alex Dombos | Scott Stegemann | Kalamazoo College | 6-2, 6-3 |
#4 Singles | Tom Cafmeyer | Jonathon Roger | Kalamazoo College | 6-3, 6-2 |
#5 Singles | Steve Hanselman | Curtis Newman | Kalamazoo College | 6-2, 7-5 |
#6 Singles | Mike Korn | Jeff Damisch | Kalamazoo College | 7-6(6), 6-0 |
#1 Doubles | Mark Denenfeld Nate Eddy | Elliot Rausa Scott Stegemann | Kalamazoo College | 9-8(8) |
#2 Doubles | Clay Bartelt Steve Hanselman | Curtis Newman Kyle Tucker | Kalamazoo College | 9-8(5) |
#3 Doubles | Tom Cafmeyer Alex Dombos | Victor Khristenko Jeff Damisch | Kalamazoo College | 8-2 |
Grand Valley Boxscores Wt/MT
Date: | 4/22/2011 |
Location: | Grand Valley State University |
Winner: | Grand Valley State University |
Score: | 8-1 |
Position | Grand Valley State University | Coe College | Winner | Score |
#1 Singles | Tara Hayes | Hannah Jensen | Coe College | 7-5, 6-4 |
#2 Singles | Niki Shipman | Michelle Schupbach | Grand Valley State University | 6-4, 6-4 |
#3 Singles | Chelsea Johnston | Tai Lucero | Grand Valley State University | 7-5, 6-1 |
#4 Singles | Lexi Rice | Sara Ohlman | Grand Valley State University | 6-0, 6-0 |
#5 Singles | Darylann Trout | Natalie Bordignon | Grand Valley State University | 6-1, 6-1 |
#6 Singles | Anne Marie Morin | Elizabeth Hoffmann | Grand Valley State University | 6-0, 6-0 |
#1 Doubles | Chelsea Johnston Darylann Trout | Michelle Schupbach Tai Lucero | Grand Valley State University | 8-1 |
#2 Doubles | Alyssa Lucas Katelyn Schaffer | Hannah Jensen Sara Ohlman | Grand Valley State University | 9-7 |
#3 Doubles | Lexi Rice Niki Shipman | Elizabeth Hoffmann Natalie Bordignon | Grand Valley State University | 8-0 |
Date: | 4/22/2011 |
Location: | Grand Valley State University |
Winner: | Grand Valley State University |
Score: | 7-2 |
Position | Grand Valley State University | Coe College | Winner | Score |
#1 Singles | Marc Roesslein | Victor Khristenko | Grand Valley State University | 6-2, 6-7(3), 10-4 |
#2 Singles | Philipp Claus | Elliot Rausa | Grand Valley State University | 6-0, 2-6, 6-2 |
#3 Singles | Andrew Darrell | Scott Stegemann | Grand Valley State University | 6-2, 6-4 |
#4 Singles | Benny Delgado-Rochas | Curtis Newman | Grand Valley State University | 7-5, 6-4 |
#5 Singles | Bryan Hodges | Jeff Damisch | Grand Valley State University | 6-2, 6-1 |
#6 Singles | Josh Kazdan | Kyle Tucker | Coe College | 6-4, 3-6, 6-3 |
#1 Doubles | Marc Roesslein Trey Keating | Elliot Rausa Scott Stegemann | Coe College | 8-5 |
#2 Doubles | Andrew Darrell Philipp Claus | Curtis Newman Kyle Tucker | Grand Valley State University | 8-5 |
#3 Doubles | Josh Kazdan Benny Delgado-Rochas | Victor Khristenko Jeff Damisch | Grand Valley State University | 8-3 |
Saturday, April 23, 2011
Happy Birthday!
Thursday, April 21, 2011
Preview-Michigan Trip
The GVSU Lakers are 14-12 on the Men's side and 29-0 and ranked 16th in the country on the Women's side. Match times are set at 1130am for the Women and 3pm for the Men. Play will be at Ramblewood Tennis Club in nearby Grand Rapids.
The Kalamazoo College Hornets are 8-7 and ranked 28th in the country. They have won an astounding 72 consecutive conference championships and 7 NCAA Men's D3 Championships. The Women's Team is coached by Coe alum and longtime Coe Assistant Tennis Coach, Mark Murphy(98). Coach Murph's team is currently 7-10 and ranked 70th in the country. Match times for Saturday will be 10am if inside leading off with the Women's contest, and 11am outside for both matches.
Also on Saturday, a second Men's match is scheduled in Galesburg, Illinois against Knox College. The Prairie Fire are 2-15 on the season.
The Kohawks are ranked 44th(Women) and 46th(Men) respectively and both Teams are coming off of upset wins over Grinnell College last Sunday. The Women had a 7-2 triumph, winning 5 of 6 singles matches and 2 of the 3 doubles. The Men rallied from a 2-4 deficit winning the final three singles matches, all in three sets. For the 2nd Sunday in a row, first-year Jeff Damisch clinched the match at the #6 singles slot.
Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Kohawk Conditioning Program
Flunk Day Practice
Activities on campus include:
11:00am - Flunk Day begins on the PUB Quad with music, carnival rides, balloon animals, and face painting
11:00am - Beach Volleyball on the outdoor court, Wii games in A/D Lobby
11:00am - Cookout on the PUB Quad
11:00am & 1:00pm Movie: Sixteen Candles in PUB
4:00pm - Flunk Day ends
5:00pm-7:00pm - Dinner and live music in the U
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
d3 Women's National rankings 4/19
2 Emory
3 Williams
4 UChicago
5 Tufts
6 Denison
7 Wash & Lee
8 Middlebury
9 Carnegie
10 JHU
11 Bowdoin
12 Claremont
13 Pomona
14 WashU
15 Gustavus
16 Chapman
17 MIT
18 South
19 Carleton
20 Depauw
21 Skidmore
22 Santa Cruz
23 TCNJ
24 Vassar
25 Mary Wash
26 Brandeis
27 Wellesley
28 Trinity(TX)
29 UT Tyler
30 Wheaton(IL)
31 Rochester
32 Redlands
33 Whitewater
34 Trinity(CT)
35 Wheaton(MA
36 Luther
37 Linfield
38 LaCrosse
39 Swarthmore
40 St Olaf
41 Wash College
42 Salisbury
43 Whitworth
44 Coe
44 Whitman
46 Rhodes
47 Kenyon
48 Methodist
49 Willamette
50 Albion
51 William Smith
52 Centre
53 Calvin
54 Muhlenberg
55 St Lawrence
56 Wartburg
57 Haverford
58 Ithaca
59 Augustana(IL)
60 Grinnell
61 Cal Lu
62 Hollins
63 St Thomas(MN)
64 Hollins
65 SUNY Geneseo
66 Hope
67 Hardin Simmons
68 Birmingham Southern
69 Wesleyan
70 Kalamazoo
Monday, April 18, 2011
d3 Men's National Rankings 4/18
2 Claremont
3 Cruz
4 Amherst
5 Middlebury
6 WashU
7 Pomona
8 Williams
9 Kenyon
10 NC Wesleyan
11 JHU
12 UChicago
13 Trinity (TX)
14 Bowdoin
15 Trinity (CT)
16 Redlands
17 Depauw
18 Cal Lu
19 Carnegie
20 Skidmore
21 Whitman
22 Rhodes
23 MIT
24 Bates
25 Case
26 Denison
27 Mary Wash
28 Kalamazoo
29 Gustavus
30 Whitewater
31 Brandeis
32 Vassar
33 McMurry
34 UT Tyler
35 Swarthmore
36 Wash & Lee
37 Haverford
38 Steven's Tech
39 TCNJ
40 Whittier
41 Christopher Newport
42 Tufts
43 Luther
44 Carleton
45 Grinnell
46 Coe
47 Salisbury
48 Franklin & Marshall
49 Eau Claire
50 Wash College
52 St Thomas(MN)
53 Colby
54 Willamette
55 Hampden Sydney
56 OH Northern
57 Oglethorpe
58 Chapman
59 Occidental
60 NYU
61 St Olaf
62 Ithaca
63 Mississippi College
64 LaCrosse
65 South
66 Wheaton(MA)
67 UT Dallas
68 Whitworth
69 Carthage
70 Wheaton (IL)
71 Augustana(IL)
72 Monmouth(IL)
73 North Central
74 Elmhurst
75 IL Wesleyan
Sunday, April 17, 2011
Sunday Scores!
WOMEN's TENNIS
Date: | 4/17/2011 |
Location: | Coe College |
Winner: | Coe College |
Score: | 7-2 |
Position | Coe College | Grinnell College | Winner | Score |
#1 Singles | Hannah Jensen | Laura Krull | Coe College | 76 62 |
#2 Singles | Michelle Schupbach | Constanza Alarcon | Coe College | 60 60 |
#3 Singles | Tai Lucero | Clothilde Thirouin | Coe College | 61 60 |
#4 Singles | Sara Ohlman | Sadhana Athreya | Coe College | 62 26 10-7 |
#5 Singles | Natalie Bordignon | Catherine Fitch | Coe College | 75 36 10-7 |
#6 Singles | Elizabeth Hoffmann | Tatyana Sukharnikova | Grinnell College | 76 63 |
#1 Doubles | Michelle Schupbach Tai Lucero | Laura Krull Sadhana Athreya | Coe College | 84 |
#2 Doubles | Hannah Jensen Sara Ohlman | Constanza Alarcon Catherine Fitch | Coe College | 83 |
#3 Doubles | Elizabeth Hoffmann Natalie Bordignon | Clothilde Thirouin Tatyana Sukharnikova | Grinnell College | 85 |
Men's Tennis
Coe College vs Grinnell College
Date: | 4/17/2011 |
Location: | Coe College |
Winner: | Coe College |
Score: | 5-4 |
Position | Coe College | Grinnell College | Winner | Score |
#1 Singles | Victor Khristenko | #21 Juan Carlos Perez Borja | Grinnell College | 60 61 |
#2 Singles | Elliot Rausa | Dmitriy Glumov | Grinnell College | 26 64 60 |
#3 Singles | Scott Stegemann | Martin Dluhos | Coe College | 63 76 |
#4 Singles | Jonathon Roger | Colin Johnson | Coe College | 67 61 63 |
#5 Singles | Curtis Newman | Ishan Bhadkamkar | Coe College | 63 46 64 |
#6 Singles | Jeff Damisch | Daniel Nellis | Coe College | 60 57 64 |
#1 Doubles | Elliot Rausa Scott Stegemann | Juan Carlos Perez Borja Dmitriy Glumov | Grinnell College | 84 |
#2 Doubles | Curtis Newman Kyle Tucker | Colin Johnson Michael Cole | Grinnell College | 98 |
#3 Doubles | Sean Stokstad Victor Khristenko | Ishan Bhadkamkar Martin Dluhos | Coe College | 98 |
Saturday, April 16, 2011
What I learned yesterday...
Some players adjusted to the strangeness of the surroundings, some did not. Those that struggled to adapt found themselves physically tightening up in competitive play, which as we all know in Today's game of Tennis is not a good thing. At all!
As always my advice to our players is to identify that which is causing the discomfort, accept it as current reality, and take positive steps to play through in a more relaxed, understanding state of mind. Things are seldom perfect in a competitive tennis match. Success is determined by how well we deal with the anxiety of unease.
We will try again tomorrow at 11am!
Schedule Adjustments
@Simpson
@Dubuque
@Loras
Explanation: On 4/16 these three matches were postponed due to weather concerns(it is snowing)Our first attempt at re-scheduling these mandatory Iowa Conference round-robin matches used two additional dates of competition forcing some of the schools involved to exceed the NCAA maximum of 20 playing dates. Since no indoor backup was available at any of the sites, the Commissioner's Office decreed that matches be played on 4/29.
Wartburg MT Results
4/15/11 @Waverly, IA Indoors, Multi-purpose courts
Newman/Tucker 1d Buckingham/Trueblood W 86
Stegemann/Damisch 2d Rasmussen/Stevens C 84
Khristenko/Klaas 3d Greco/Willadsen C 82
Khristenko 1s Buckingham C 64 76
Stegemann 2s Rasmussen C 63 46 63
Newman 3s Stevens C 60 61
Damisch 4s Masterson C 61 60
Tucker 5s Greco C 61 76
Janssen 6s Willadsen W 62 46 10-5
Friday, April 15, 2011
Adjusted Weekend Schedule
Friday, April 15th
Coe Men at Wartburg, Waverly, IA, inside at 4pm
Saturday, April 16th
Coe Men vs Loras at Clark Racquet Center 10am
Sunday, April 17th
Coe vs Grinnell, Men & Women, at Clark Racquet Center
If Nice: 11am outside both Teams
If Wet: Men at 11am
Women at 3pm
Thursday, April 28th
Coe at Dubuque 4pm
Friday, April 29th
Coe at Simpson, TBA
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
d3 Women's National rankings 4/12
2 Emory
3 Williams
4 Chicago
5 Tufts
6 Pomona
7 Denison
8 Wash & Lee
9 Middlebury
10 Carnegie
11 JHU
12 Bowdoin
13 Claremont
14 WashU
15 Gustavus
16 Vassar
17 Chapman
18 Mary Wash
19 Skidmore
20 Carleton
21 Depauw
22 UCSC
23 Wellesley
24 Rochester
25 TCNJ
26 South
27 Wheaton(IL)
28 Trinity(TX)
29 UT Tyler
30 Redlands
31 Rhodes
32 Whitewater
33 MIT
34 Trinity(CT)
35 Brandeis
36 Luther
37 Whitworth
38 Methodist
39 Wheaton(MA)
40 LaCrosse
41 Linfield
42 Whitman
43 Swarthmore
44 Salisbury
45 St Olaf
46 Hardin-Simmons
47 Coe
48 Huntingdon
49 William Smith
50 Kenyon
Monday, April 11, 2011
d3 Men's National Rankings 4/11
2 Claremont
3 Cruz
4 Amherst
5 Middlebury
6 WashU
7 Pomona
8 Williams
9 Kenyon
10 NC Wesleyan
11 JHU
12 Chicago
13 Trinity(TX)
14 Bowdoin
15 Trinity(CT)
16 Redlands
17 Depauw
18 Carnegie
19 Cal Lu
20 Skidmore
21 Whitman
22 Rhodes
23 Brandeis
24 MIT
25 Bates
26 Case
27 Gustavus
28 Denison
29 Mary Washington
30 Whitewater
31 Vassar
32 Kalamazoo
33 McMurry
34 UT Tyler
35 Swarthmore
36 W & L
37 Haverford
38 Stevens Tech
39 TCNJ
40 Luther
41 Whittier
42 Grinnell
43 Christopher Newport
44 Salisbury
45 Hampden Sydney
46 Carleton
47 Tufts
48 Coe
49 Oglethorpe
50 Wash College
51 St Thomas (MN)
52 Eau Claire
53 Chapman
54 Mississippi College
55 Ohio Northern
56 Occidental
57 Colby
58 LaCrosse
59 Willamette
60 South
61 NYU
62 Ithaca
63 Wheaton(IL)
64 Franklin & Marshall
65 Birmingham Southern
66 North Central
67 Carthage
68 Whitworth
69 Wheaton (MA)
70 Rochester
71 Augustana
72 Monmouth
73 Pacific(OR)
74 St Lawrence
75 Lake Forest
What I learned Yesterday....
And now both teams move on to play other conference foes, with a potential re-match lurking on May 7th. A lot of opportunity to continue to improve as individuals, pairs, and as a Team.
Sunday, April 10, 2011
Live Scoring - Coe vs Luther
Whitewater vs Coe Boxscore
Rausa/Stegemann 1d Osborne/Balkin W 85
Tucker/Newman 2d Niquet/Bayliss C 85
VK/Stokstad 3d Miller/Scanlan W 84
Khristenko 1 Bayliss W 64 61
Rausa 2 McGlashen W 75 62
Stegemann 3 Osborne W 64 62
Roger 4 Balkin W 61 64
Newman 5 Niquet W 57 64 10-5
Damisch 6 Scanlan W 62 75
Coe Gold 5 Whitewater Purple 4
Janssen/Klaas 1d Klein/Friend W 81
Land/Roger 2d Porter/Redemacher W 82
Leovic/Damisch 3d Anderson/Noonan C 97
Tucker 1 Porter C 46 64 14-12
Stokstad 2 Klein C 62 46 12-10
Janssen 3 Rademacher C 63 63
Klaas 4 Friend W 63 63
Land 5 Noonan C 67 64 10-8
Wilson 6 Anderson W 60 61
What I learned Yesterday....
In plain, straightforward, honest terms.....we got beat. And beat bad. Credit to Whitewater. They survived a real threat in doubles to take the 2-1 lead into singles, and then dropped the proverbial hammer on the Kohawks. We won a set. One set.
That happens. Good news? Behavior was upbeat. Effort excellent, attitudes fairly positive during play(considering the score). Oh, and the Gold Team won 54 highlighted by three Superbreaker triumphs. More good news....we play again. Today. At home, vs defending conference champion Luther College.
This Team is poised for a breakout match. I am patiently waiting. (Those of you who know me, know that patience is not synonymous with my character, but nonetheless, I am patiently waiting)
Saturday, April 9, 2011
Eastern vs. Western....
I recently finished reading Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, written by Amy Chua. As a mother to an “almost 3” (in Emmie speak) year old, the book peaked my interest. Chinese children do tend to excel in the classroom, as well as various other activities they commit to…..or rather, the activities that their parents commit them to (as referenced in the book). And success inevitably leads to self-confidence, which is a core belief that I strive to instill in Emmie.
As shown below, believe I may have gone overboard this past Winter when expecting a 2 1/2 year old to ice skate.....the experience certainly did not instill self-confidence.
Honestly, I expected to be stunned by the extreme parenting techniques of the Chinese parent based on my limited knowledge of, and admittedly biased “through the grapevine” opinion. However, just a few short pages into the book, I quickly related to the author. We share a similar educational background (minus the Ivy League status on my behalf), many personality traits, and the strife for success/perfection in self and those lives around us that we are assisting to shape (children, students, athletes). Although a pared down, less intense version of (especially on the parenting side), I also related to her work ethic to attain success!
After completing the book, I actually believe my parenting style tips the scale in favor of Eastern parenting. In other words, I fall near the 3rd bevel to relate back to tennis terminology. Ballpark figures of course, but I would guess that I am a 66% Tiger Mom and 79% Tiger Coach. Ballpark figures you may question? Yes, I am a numbers person and both 66 and 79 have meaning to me so those are the numbers I chose within the range believed to be.
Quotes from the book that caught my attention / lead me to believe I have the “tiger” within me:
“Never complain or make excuses. If something seems unfair at school, just prove yourself by working twice as hard and being twice as good.”
“Everything valuable and worthwhile is difficult.”
“There is nothing better for building confidence than learning you can do something you thought you couldn’t.”
“The Chinese believe that the best way to protect their children is by preparing them for the future, letting them see what they are capable of, and arming them with skills, work habits, and inner confidence that no one can ever take away.”
“A fundamental tenet of being Chinese is that you always do all of the extra credit all of the time.”
“Never not try something out of fear. Everything I’ve ever done that’s valuable is something I was terrified to try.”
“By squeezing out so much from every moment of every day, perhaps I imagined that I was buying myself more time. As a purely mathematical fact, people who sleep less live more.”
“But just because you love something, doesn’t mean you’ll ever be great. Not if you don’t work. Most people stink at the things they love.”
Where I differ with regard to eastern parenting/coaching is rooted in the concept of happiness. As Chua stated, “Happiness is not a concept I tend to dwell on. Chinese parenting does not address happiness. This has always worried me. When I see the piano and violin induced calluses on my daughters’ fingertips, or the teeth marks on the piano, I’m sometimes seized with doubt.”
Unlike the pure tiger parent, happiness and the enjoyment of the experience is a core tenet of mine, and Kohawk Tennis. It is one of the many reasons I coach at Coe!
Warning –
Don’t read the following paragraphs if you intend on reading the book, and would prefer that the ending be left in tact.
Ironically, as the author attempts to summarize her thoughts and wrap up the book, her daughter Sophia points out the core principles of Chinese parenting and their relation to western history:
“Ben Franklin said, ‘If thou loveth life, never ever EVER wasteth time.’ Thomas Jefferson said, ‘I’m a huge believer in luck, and the harder I work the more I have of it.’ And Alexander Hamilton said, ‘Don’t be a whiner.”
“Mommy, if the Founding Fathers thought that way, then it’s an American way of thinking.”
Regardless of where rooted, or applied, I personally will continue to parent and coach in an attempt to instill core values, build character, and confidence. I hope to limit the extremely harsh words/actions that Chua referenced at times, and embrace the process and experience of improvement as being enjoyable (happiness!).
Live Scoring Update
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Wednesday, April 6, 2011
IIAC Mid-Season Report
2010-11 Men's Tennis
School | IIAC | All |
---|---|---|
Coe | 3-0 | 14-4 |
Luther | 3-0 | 11-4 |
Dubuque | 2-0 | 7-10 |
Cornell | 4-1 | 10-8 |
Buena Vista | 2-4 | 3-7 |
Wartburg | 1-2 | 4-10 |
Central | 1-3 | 5-12 |
Simpson | 0-2 | 3-14 |
Loras | 0-4 | 1-9 |
At approximately the mid-season, the Iowa Conference Men's Tennis race is beginning to heat up and take shape. The IIAC has round-robin play so each school will end up with eight conference matches, and the top six teams will be selected to play in the Team Championship which will be held at the Hawkeye Tennis Complex in Iowa City, Iowa on May 6th and 7th.
Three schools remain undefeated in Conference play including heavily favored Luther College. The Norse do play both Cornell and Coe this weekend in match ups involving three of the current top four teams. Both Luther(#36) and Coe(#50) hold national rankings.
Saturday April 9th
Simpson vs Dubuque
Simpson vs Loras
Central vs Loras
Central vs Dubuque
Buena Vista vs Wartburg
Cornell vs Luther
Sunday April 10th
Luther vs Coe
Some top IIAC individual performers to keep on eye on include #4 Scott Sundstrom(Luther), #6 Nick Garcia(Dubuque), and #25 Harrison Whitely(Luther). Doubles pairs to watch #9 Sundstrom/Karki(Luther), #14 Rausa/Stegemann(Coe) and #22 Garcia/Iben(Dubuque). All rankings are Central Region rankings. There are four regions in NCAA d3 Men's Tennis. The top eight singles players and top four doubles pairs are selected at season's end to compete in the d3 Individual Championships. This year's Championship will be jointly hosted by Claremont-Mudd-Scripps and Pomona-Pitzer Colleges May 27th-29th.